"There's a term for when a guy stops calling," my hairdresser tells me as he curls my tresses into a Joan Crawford wave à la Mildred Pierce.
"It's called dating." Has dating really devolved into something so cynical?
Fortunately, or maybe unfortunately, I had to look no further than my own friends, and my own dating dalliances for cases that would give me some insight into what I call The Casper Effect. " As many of us know from experience, of people to that -- I'm guessing lots of women, too.
That evening we were texting & he was saying I had lovely eyes, and a lovely personality. So I took the light hearted approach a few days later and said “Just wondered if we could meet for coffee again or perhaps a spot of lunch? Promise ;-) When you send a text to a guy, give him a few days to respond before you think something is wrong. What’s bothering me now is that he’s been acting differently towards me ever since.
If he doesn't then believe me, he isn't worth chasing..time to move on. You never know, you might actually meet someone better.
Now just because I have said that he may contact you after you have stopped texting or calling him doesn't mean that you should wait by the phone. Just imagine these two scenarios: Just as you shouldn't be waiting by the phone, you shouldn't let it play on your mind.
It makes you feel a little rejected, confused and even angry.Have you spent weeks or even months going out on dates, texting flirty messages to each and spending hours laughing together but then all contact just seemed to have abruptly stopped.
You not have even heard from him in a number weeks or even months..even a simple hey.If this has happened to you then there are a few things that you should do and shouldn't do to help you come out of this good. I have gone through this myself and have seen others go through it so I talk from experience.Here are some things that you should and shouldn't do if your man has stopped calling: This is one that so many of us fail because it is probably the harder thing that you shouldn't do if he has stopped calling.